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When we have an idea, there are always reasons why we should do it and reasons why we should not. If the idea is not consistent with what’s in our heart, then it’s likely that it’s not for us and it may even seem like terribly hard work. And some things that we think we want, aren’t really in our best interest.
Have you ever tried to contact someone by phone in haste, either to complain or make a point and you just can’t get through? We can try and try again and the line’s busy. I WANT to speak to her! If we try long enough we may eventually get through but in hindsight wish we hadn’t because the conversation didn’t go well. We’ve created animosity or resentment. But it’s possible that the person would have been able and willing to help in some other way and now they may grudge helping us at all. Have I burnt my boats? Maybe I should have gone with the flow and accepted after a couple of attempts to get through that this wasn’t meant to happen or the timing wasn’t right. Maybe the issue hadn’t been that important and if I’d not made the call, we’d still have good relations.
When we’re going with the flow, things can seem to happen so easily. Travel arrangements work out well, meetings go smoothly, people offer help unexpectedly and we excel in our endeavours. It can seem that certain things are ‘meant’ to be and that they are ‘for’ us. Things always work out well in the end or there are benefits to be had, even if we can't see how at the time.
Today, I'm going to 'go with the flow' and see what happens...