Perfect Poise, Perfect Life
Bring your body into balance and revolutionise your life
By Noel Kingsley
Publisher Hodder Mobius
AVAILABLE HERE
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Positive Thinking
On meeting a friend yesterday, the first thing she said was "This Positive Thinking business really works!" I asked her what she meant and she replied "I've met someone."
Having not had a relationship for a number of years and now living abroad having moved there alone, she has been keen to have a new boyfriend, but nothing had yet transpired. She had a clear idea of the type of person she'd like to meet, but no-one had come into her life.
After a brief visit to London in December for a number of work related functions and on leaving one high profile party, she made a conscious decision that this was the last time that she would attend this annual function as a single person. She decided that by this time next year she would have a partner.
My friend told me that on returning to her home in France and on New Year's Day, met an English friend who lived in a nearby village, who she had known for a year or so. It was on New Year's Day that this friend told her, having first summoned all his courage, that he loved her, and had loved her ever since they met a year ago. But as he'd had a girlfriend, he had not said anything. But now, his relationship was breaking up and he felt able to share his feelings. He said that he couldn't believe that she had not already been snapped up.
Apparently this man is not an obvious choice for my friend. Indeed she hadn't ever thought of him in a romantic way. He wasn't her type. She had a clear vision of someone quite chic, trendy, good looking and athletic and this man was an English farmer who having moved to France, was setting up a farm for rare breeds of spotted pigs and fluffy-headed hens. She hadn't fancied him at all, although the pigs are pretty cute.
But when I asked her about him, it turns out that he really makes her laugh....a lot. He's great fun, has a strong sense of what is right and wrong, is honest and as solid as a rock, cuddly and romantic too. Over the last year, she had said that visualisation Techniques had not worked. She had not got what she wanted. So I asked her yesterday, would she like to be with a man who made her laugh, was honest, solid and reliable as well as being cuddly, romantic and who had a strong sense of right and wrong......and she said "Of course. Yes I would." ...So did she get what she wanted? He may not match her ideal criteria for looks, but on a deeper level....the level that really counts, he is what she truly wanted deep down. She now feels that it was her clear decision to make a change in her life after the London party that shifted her her energy about the situation and she attracted towards her what was right. It's the Law of Attraction.
Since their frank and open discussion things have blossomed. She has seen what a wonderful partner he could actually be, they've talked about having children and have even set a date for getting married in November. I'm going to book my tickets.
Not a bad start to the year! 2007 is going to be a good one.
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